2nd chance

Good news for me and hopefully for you too, asking guys out gets easier. The first time was absolutely terrifying and although this one was still scary it wasn’t as bad. Considering that he is an RM you’d think it would be a million times worse. But it wasn’t. I just told him that I know this is really last minute but will you go out with me tomorrow night. So we did. Friday night we met at the Wilk so there were no “dad interrogation impersonations’ by the roommates. My only worry was where to say goodbye. I have no idea where he lives or where he would park his car (if he drives to campus) so I can’t really walk him home. But at the same time our date will last until midnight so do I just leave him to walk home in the dark?

But do not fret, all went well. So to my date. First of all his name is Daniel. We doubled with my roommate Carrie and our FHE dad, Brayden. We met at the Wilk and headed to The Wall. At first we didn’t know what to do by we eventually got comfortable and colored on the pillars, ate some food and played the most addicting game ever. Honestly The Wall is amazing. If you ever have to plan a date go there. It is the perfect relaxing date and the games are great for groups. Two hours later we were still saving the world from alien spaceships when we got kicked out. Note to self: The Wall closes at 12 on Friday nights. Unfortunately half way through eating fries and Buffalo wings Daniel caught on and asked, “Wait, you’re all freshmen.” But he quickly got over it and the night continued to improve from then on. So far both dates have been equally amazing.

 

Important side note: When I first told my mom that is an RM and also Asian she replied “you know that I’ve always wanted Asian grandbabies.” Besides being funny it proves a point that I need to make. One date does not mean marriage. My biggest fear about asking guys out is that they’ll think that I like them. This is not the case. The two guys I’ve asked out and the other four on my list are not guys that I “like”. Maybe one day a guy that I do like will realize I’m trying to be outgoing and he will ask me out. But how is your future husband going to know to ask you out if you don’t seem interested in dating? Just something to think about.

 

P.S. sorry there are no pictures this week. The Wall was too dark. I'll try harder next week.